Everything Happens for a Reason?

I've been hearing this statement forever.

And, lately, I've been questioning the use of the word "every" here.

I also struggle with the use of this statement as if the words have power to follow us and make sense of our actions and choices.

I don't see a reason for cancer. I don't see a reason for child molestation. I don't see a reason for some daily choices, especially mine.

I do think that we take comfort in the words. And, maybe that is reason enough to hold on to this American Proverb.

However, perhaps for our choices and actions, we should think more clearly about the laws of natural consequences and say something like "I wonder what good will come of this."

Just thinkin'.

Yes, things do happen for a reason. Some things anyhow. And, sometimes, things just happen. And, sometimes, we make things happen.

Boy, how did I get all philosophical tonight?!?!?